cookiesandcreamrukia:

elfvenomm:

biyaself:

I know grown ass people who say “this just the way I am” alllll the time

Recognizing your own toxic behaviour is peak adulting. You don’t stop learning once you turn 18+.

My dad is almost 70 and always says he’s still growing, changing, and learning. That’s what life is, an ongoing experience that you gotta be open for change in.

“That’s just how I am” is bullshit, you don’t like it or you see it affects the ones you love negatively, you change that shit.

*cough cough* I know some people who could really improve themselves and social skills, instead they pin blame on others.

venuselectrificata:

venuselectrificata:

you want my hot take for the evening? people who dont like complainers just havent been exposed to good complaining, and will never know if they themselves have an inborn talent for the art of kvetching

good complaining is some combination of a) funny, b) animated and theatrical, c) insightful re: human foibles, d) inquiry into social trends and norms.it must ALWAYS involve at least a small degree of self awareness, and is often used to build camaraderie and maintain relationships.

source: im jewish

Good news, fellow men: our terrible behavior isn’t biological

persona3protagonist:

breelandwalker:

perspicaglitch:

cannibal-rainbow:

  • The belief that men are biologically inclined to be more aggressive and oppressive is false.
  • Men do not need to repress a instinct to be aggressive because it doesn’t exist.
  • They are taught from an early age to repress all emotions except for anger which leads to violent outbursts.
  • Toxic masculinity upholds this repression leading to many
    men not knowing how to communicate clearly and to associate women with
    emotions they deem “inferior”.

we been know

“Toxic masculinity is learned behavior and the teaching of it is systematic and unhealthy.”

In other news, water is wet.

Above comments discourage people from bothering to do these studies which are used to prove these points that, while obvious to many of us, are missed by lots of ignorant people. It’s necessary to be able to point at research to say “yes this is fact” when educating people. Please don’t dismiss the importance of research like this

Good news, fellow men: our terrible behavior isn’t biological

Eri Headcannons

cartooness:

~Papa Midoriya and Mama Ochaco love her to Pluto and back, and more

~The girls are her Aunties, boys are her Bubbas

~Auntie Mina and Auntie Hagakure keep trying to get Mama and Papa to confess their love to each other. Only Eri can make it happen tho.

~Bubba Sato makes her pancakes every Friday and special occasion.

~When she goes to school, every student takes turns doing her bento boxes for the week. And I mean EVERYONE. Her favorites are Sato and Bakugou.

~One week, she has to stay with Inko because the class had to go somewhere for training and couldn’t risk her getting hurt. She’s sad at first because she won’t see them for a whole week, but when she arrives at Inko’s apartment she sees so much of her Papa in her.

~When she refers Midoriya as her papa and Uraraka as her mama, Inko nearly has a heart attack at how PRECIOUS this albino unicorn is. And that her son has a GIRLFRIEND?!?! She is way too blessed.

~Inko makes her noodles and teaches how to eat them properly.

~She shows her Midoriya’s old things and they find all his All Might onsies, and Eri tries them on in instantly.

~They surprisingly fit her perfectly

~She wears them all week as her jammies

~She doesn’t have ANY nightmares all week.

~When they go grocery shopping that Wednesday, Eri calls her Gramma Inko. Cue Inko trying her hardest not to sob her eyes out.

~On the way home, Eri asks about Midoriya’s own Papa. When Inko says he hasn’t seen his papa in a very long time, Eri says, “Well what about Grandpa Toshi?” “Who’s that , Eri” “All Might! He’s Grandpa Toshi!”

~Inko goes redder than a tomato. Eri thinks All Might is Izuku’s father….  

~Soon Friday rolls around and All Might comes to pick Eri up. When he knocks at the door and is greeted by Eri. “Gramma Inko, Grandpa Toshi’s here!”

~He nearly spits up blood when he hears this

~When he asks how her week with Inko was, she lights up like a Christmas tree and goes on about finding Midoriya’s old onsies, going grocery shopping, and she tried to explain how she learned to eat noodles. 13/10 would go back again.

~On the car ride to them dorm, she’s practically bouncing in her seat because she just SO excited about seeing her family after so long.

~When she finally arrives at the dorms, everyone greets her with hugs and smiles. She also tells them all about her week and what she and Gramma Inko did.

~When she mentions the onsies, Midoriya instantly becomes flustered and asks what else did she find. When she replies they only found onsies, he is relieved his mom didn’t show her any of his old home videos. Until she mentions them.

~THANKFULLY she doesn’t explain them.

~She spends the evening enjoying time with her family.

~Before bedtime, she gets a call from Gramma and wishes her goodnight.

~She doesn’t have a nightmare for all that week because she’s too happy thinking about her Gramma Inko…

Hope you enjoyed!!

~Cartooness

@chapelseed @imbeccablee